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The kingdom of God is here
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Member name: UniquEunich
This member is a swm, age: 50.
They describe their height as Tall and their body style as Average.
They are located in the City of houston about Login to see distance. In the State of TX. Zip code:
77035. They live around .
They signed up here to find: I want you for life. I pray for a long life. After that, He will be with us forever.---You are of
equal value, equal rights, and equal rank. "Who can find a noble wife? She is worth far more
than rubies." But if you were called to be a missionary in an impoverished country with little
support and great sacrifice, would you go? I would go with you? "She opens her arms to those
who are poor. She reaches out her hands to those who are needy."
"Charm can fool you. Beauty fades. But a woman who has respect for the Lord should be
praised." If you cannot respect others, then when I respect you, you will not respect yourself,
either. I am waiting for a woman who wants to know Jesus. She knows that Jesus loves her as a
single female. She wants to get married because she wants to make someone a good wife -
FOREVER [a covenant]. Not because she needs a husband to feel ok about herself. Not because
she thinks that a child will love her like noone else has.
If you want or have your own career, that is fine, I will do whatever I can to promote your
progress. But I hate daycare. Both of us may have to make concessions. "She considers a field
and buys it. She uses some of the money she earns to plant a vineyard." I hope the same from
you. I cannot do my business by myself so either you can pitch in or I will have to hire someone
to help. If you are jealous then let's not get started. There has to be a trade off somewhere.
You may be a lady who desires to join me at the office and make sure all my talents are utilized
to excellence. "She gets ready to work hard. Her arms are strong. She sees that her trading earns
a lot of money." I like her to be aggressive as it meets our goals. Competitive? If that is her, ok.
Loyalty to the marriage must overcome our competitiveness or it may turn inward and divide us,
so no contentiousness, please. She is to be the helper, I will be the worker. She may want to be
licensed to be a worker, but it is optional, not a requirement for her. Quiet? Not necessarily. At
least think and pray about your words before you blurt out hurtful things. "She puts on strength
and honor as if they were her clothes. She can laugh at the days that are coming. She speaks
wisely." Can she be herself? Yes, be as creative as you wish. I don’t expect you to be my clone,
just my helper.
Can you hear from the Lord God Almighty? Great! I will listen, but don't expect me to bow
down if I don't think it is HIM. Will I ever listen? Yes-- always, and sometimes, if I'm smart, I
will obey your intuition even if I have my doubts.
Can we have fun? Absolutely!! This is the stuff that miracles and spectacular serendipity is made
out of. Hold onto your heart, this is not a walk in the park. Unless I have lots of money to cover
travel, room, and board back and forth for visitation with my son, I cannot relocate from Houston
Texas.
Who can find a noble wife? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband trusts her
completely. She gives him all the important things he needs. She brings him good, not harm, all
the days of her life. She chooses wool and flax. She loves to work with her hands. She is like the
ships of traders. She brings her food from far away. She gets up while it is still dark. She
provides food for her family. She also gives some to her female servants. She considers a field
and buys it. She uses some of the money she earns to plant a vineyard. She gets ready to work
hard. Her arms are strong. She sees that her trading earns a lot of money. Her lamp doesn't go
out at night. With one hand she holds the wool. With the other she spins the thread. She opens
her arms to those who are poor. She reaches out her hands to those who are needy. When it
snows, she's not afraid for her family. All of them are dressed in the finest clothes. She makes
her own bed coverings. She is dressed in fine linen and purple clothes. Her husband is respected
at the city gate. There he takes his seat among the elders of the land. She makes linen clothes
and sells them. She supplies belts to the traders. She puts on strength and honor as if they were
her clothes. She can laugh at the days that are coming. She speaks wisely. She teaches
faithfully. She watches over family matters. she is busy all the time. Her children stand up and
call her blessed. Her husband also rises up, and he praises her. He says, "Many women do noble
things. But you are better than all the others." Charm can fool you. Beauty fades. But a woman
who has respect for the Lord should be praised. Give her the reward she has earned. Let
everything she has done bring praise to her at the city gate. Proverbs 31 NirV
Being ready to join in and push when I am ready to go. Be able to "run with the ball" at her own
pace without feeling that she is overwhelmed or alone. Trusting that she is able to help even
when she does not feel it. Holding on to me when the adventure opens up more than she
expected. Using me for protection. Wanting to heal the wounds when we land. Being proud that
she has done the job of being a wife and mother. Not being boxed in by others definitions of a
good woman. Please do not fake this. If this does not resonate in your soul and God has not
given this to you, move on.
They think of themselves as: Spiritual but not religious! By that I mean a relationship not a ritual. I attend to my brothers and sisters at church regularly but not for spiritual food.
I go to exercise my spiritual gifts to one
another, “I have food that you do not know about.” I have a destiny that is beyond my control. I am living it but I do not know where it will end. I am called by God and I am waiting for that calling to be fulfilled.
I enjoy life to the fullest and I want to do everything there is to do. If I don't know how to do it, I want to learn how. After all, you only live once! I believe in a positive attitude in all that I do.
As long as I stay physically fit I plan to work. My pastor is in his 80's and he is the most remarkable person I have ever met.
Family is the most important thing to me after God, first and foremost. Presently that is my son, until I am married. At that time, my wife becomes more important than the child/children.
Yes they should be considered but if you live for your children, do not get interested in me. I enjoy everything about family. I come from a small family and my son is all that is left. Did I say family is important? Yeah, I did. So..... what I think I'm looking for is someone who shares the same interests, enjoys living life to the fullest, going new places, trying new things,
playing/watching sports, fishing, camping, hiking, canoeing, and anything outdoors.
You must believe in honesty, as I am an open book and I would expect the same. I never meet a
stranger. If you meet me, you'll see that I automatically feel like I've known you forever, and I'll treat you that way.
I'm a very touchy-feely person as well. After marriage, the daily goal is romantic love. My goal is to not want or need sex as a foundation for the marriage. The foundation should be both of us holding to God and doing what he wants us to do in relation to each other. You a helpmeet and follower. Me, the head of the houselhold.
As a minimum, I believe sex is a duty [but only
necessary when duty calls] owed to each other and should not be withheld except by mutual
consent for a short period of time. If sex is used to manipulate the other's actions, that is a sin.
If you don't like that kind of person, please move on. I would rather you have counseling or read books on this topic before we communicate. I do not want to teach the basics here
lest you think I am pushing you. I am not into hedonism and Kinsey was a pervert. I also don’t
believe in the status quo but spiritual growth in this area will maintain a fulfilling marriage. I do not believe in an open marriage.
I'm very honest and insightful in what I see and feel. I'm also very thoughtful. I believe in being kind, giving, and telling someone to have a nice day! I call just to say Hi, and I like to be called just to say Hi. I guess I basically treat others the way I would like to be treated, and I don't stray from that.
I am an observer of life, as well as a participant, and I'd love to meet someone who
wants to share this wonderful, crazy, busy life I've been given with me!
I do not need a wife. If He provides a wife, it is a gift. Until then, God is my spouse. I am
complete in Him. I was divorced in 2003. I hate divorce but it has happened twice not by my
choice. I always believe that the relationship will last forever. I have never divorced my wife but God is first and she is Second.
Am I always right? Hardly, but don't get upset if you are wrong. Be able to laugh at yourself and at me. I will try to incorporate your advice 100 percent unless unless there is a better way. If you are one with God's will. I can be one with you. When I make a mistake, and I will, please embrace the consequences with me and let me repent and lead us out of the setback.
I have an adopted son born on Sept 11, 1996. He will be third in importance along with your
child(ren.) I believe in principled child upbringing not child centered [he does not get whatever he wants.] When and if we have our own children, I will be as much their caretaker as you are. If we can homeschool, I am in favor of it but this will naturally cut into our income as I will not relegate this responsibility to you. It may be 50-50.
God said, "Be fruitful and multiply." I believe I still can but if not, I will adjust.
I have four college degrees. We can build on them together. I am trying to build a business but it is not progressing as fast as I would like. Income potential is in the future, not now. This could change at any time but won't increase until HE can trust me. I am not the boss because Jesus is the managing partner, but I need input from her [you.] My business is also my ministry. There is no formula for balancing all this.
I will earn your respect. I love to turn my attention to fulfilling my wife's life. I give up myself for her. I love, honor and cherish her. I forgive her and stay optimistic. I don't see wrinkles, I see smiles. "Every part of you is so beautiful, my love. There is no flaw in you." I am faithful and a romantic lover. Not a dancer by upbringing but not against learning.
I've been told that my best physical qualities are the sparkle in my baby blue eyes, my legs [I've run most of my life], and my soft dreamy voice. I kind of like my silky soft blond/brown hair. I am seeing touches of grey on the edges. I love to work out if you are there. Not so much if you are not. I like to walk with you. I need more than walking personally for my healthy
maintenance.
All my friends like my unique insight into my soul and theirs. I can be transparent because I am in touch with myself. I listen very well but sometimes I interrupt. I can control this if it is important to you but please don't do a monolog. It is better to discuss. I want to understand, and don't like the silent treatment. I believe you when you tell me what you meant even though I thought you meant something else. "Her husband trusts her completely." I expect the same from you. This makes communication very important.
If you fear my vision, it’s ok be courageous. If you think all this is a true picture of me, you are afraid for no reason. These are my ideals, not my persona. I am far from arriving and I don't really expect either of us to be there without God doing all of it in any particular moment
"The king says to the Shulammite woman, 'You are so beautiful, my love! So Beautiful! Your
eyes behind your veil are like doves. Your hair flows like a flock of black goats coming down
from Mount Gilead. Your teeth are as clean as a flock of sheep. Their wool has just been clipped. They have just come up from being washed. Each of your teeth has its twin. Not one of them is alone. Your lips are like a bright red ribbon. Your mouth is so lovely. Your cheeks
behind your veil are like the halves of a pomegranate. Your neck is strong and beautiful like the tower of David. That tower is built with beautiful stones.
A thousand shields are hanging on it. All of them belong to mighty soldiers. your two are lovely. they are like two young antelopes that eat among the lilies. I will go to the mount of myrrh. I'll go to the hill of incense. I'll stay there until the day begins and the shadows fade away.
Every part of you is so beautiful, my love. There is no flaw in you. .... My bride, you have stolen my heart with one glance of your eyes. My sister, you have stolen my heart with one jewel in your necklace. My bride, your love is so delightful. My sister, your love makes me happier than wine does. Your perfume smells better than any spice. Your lips are as sweet as a honeycomb, my bride. Milk and honey are under your tongue.
Your clothes smell like the cedar trees in Lebonon. My bride, you are like a garden that is locked up. My sister, you are like a spring of water that has a fence around it. You are like a fountain that is sealed up. You are like trees whose branches are loaded with pomegranates, fine fruits, henna and nard, with saffron, cane and cinnamon.
You are like every kind of incense tree. You have myrrh, aloes and all of the fine spices. You are like a fountain in a garden. You are like a well of flowing water streaming down from Lebanon." Song of Solomon 4, NIrV--------------------------------------------
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